Suggestion Saturday: May 18, 2013

Here is this week’s list of blog posts and other tidbits from my favourite corners of the web.

The Girl and the Flower. A fairy tale about a woman who would do anything to save her dying husband. Prepare to suddenly need to wipe something out of the corner of your eye when you read this.

Closer to the Sun via @jtvancouver. A poem that sent chills down my spine.

Great Graphic Novels for Seniors. This is actually a great list of recommendations for anyone who isn’t interested in traditional superhero tales but likes the look of graphic novels.

Cabinet Containment. If only all politicians could be humanely given away this easily. One of my college professors once warned us that most readers don’t pick up on satire. Her words echo through my mind every time I read this blog.

Kindness in a Cruel World. I love this.

Excuse Me, Can You Leave? It’s Just That I Was Studying First. An amusing story about a student who really doesn’t want to share “his” bench. This exchange reminds me of Sheldon from The Big Bang Theory.

From Food Bank:

“Look,” he said, pointing to the buildings, “A food bank! If you want, we can drop off those leftovers so you can withdraw them later.”
“Um, I think food banks give your food to other people.”
He feigned shock. “Then that’s a horrible bank!”


Between 1854 and 1929 abandoned children in the U.S. were sent out west in an attempt to find new families for them. Back then there were no social workers or foster homes as we know them to protect neglected or abused kids, and orphan trains were basically the only  alternative mistreated children had to growing up homeless on the streets.

Orphan Train is a novel about an Irish girl eventually (re)named Vivian Daley who experiences the best and worst of this social experiment. Eight decades later a biracial teenager named Molly slouches from one home to another. Her foster father claims to love her, but Molly has long since learned the hollowness of that word. When they meet under unusual circumstances in 2011 old secrets are revealed and painful memories finally laid to rest.

This early bird stayed up reading past midnight because I was so enthralled with the vivid descriptions of the worlds they lived in as well as how many similarities there were between Vivian and Molly’s childhoods. I wanted to dive into the pages of this book and bring both girls home to live with me.

Fair warning: a few scenes describe physical and (attempted) sexual abuse from the child’s point of view, but these experiences are not the crux of Molly and Vivian’s stories. If anything, this book is about how beautiful life can be after you’ve acknowledged that something really shitty happened and vowed never to perpetuate the cycle of abuse.

What have you been reading?

10 Questions While I’m Writing

This might only make sense to fellow writers, but the characters in After the Storm have begun leading me into plot twists I was hoping to avoid. Many years ago I had a similar issue with a character in another story. I was so invested in finding a way around who she kept turning out to…

This is Water

This video is well worth the 10 minute investment. A few quotes from it: “None of this stuff is really about morality or religion or dogma or big fancy questions about life after death.…” “The alternate is unconsciousness, the default setting, the rat race, the constant, gnawing sense of having had, and lost, some infinite…

After the Storm: Part Seven

Just tuning in? Catch up with parts one, two, three, four,  five and six of this story. Ephraim had always taken after MacArthur’s tall, pale, and stocky frame so Daphne was quite surprised to see how tanned and muscular the boy had grown during his studies. Doctors were expected to cultivate their own herbs and have a well-stocked…

Suggestion Saturday: May 11, 2013

Here is this week’s list of blog posts, a brand new message board, flash fiction and other tidbits from my favourite corners of the web. From Silencing Techniques: Have you ever had an entire conversation that was not about the thing you wanted to talk about, but about why you needed to stop talking about…

7 Years and 10 Months of Marriage Advice

Last week, during a conversation about her upcoming wedding, @lindsayrobins asked me for marriage advice. This is what I have learned over the last 7 years, 10 months, and 29 days of my marriage.  1. Relationship Books Are Useless. Read them for comedic purposes (if you must), but don’t forget that people are complex. Of course gender…

After the Storm: Part Six

Just tuning in? Catch up with parts one, two, three, four, and five of this story. The courtroom was as small and airless as ever. It had been early September the last time she was here, and even though the temperature had finally dipped below 100 F her damp dress clung to the  pooch in her abdomen…

Suggestion Saturday: May 4, 2013

Here is this week’s list of blog posts, short stories and other tidbits from my favourite corners of the web. Neurodiversity Rewires Conventional Thinking About Brains via JeffHolton.  I like where this is headed. Coming Out. Non-theists, this link is for you. How do you talk about your atheism/agnosticism /apatheism with strangers, friends and family members? Star…

After the Storm: Part Five

Part one of this story. Part two of this story. Part three of this story. Part four of this story. Squeak. Daphne willed her heavy eyes to open. Between worrying about what another epidemic would do to  her community and comforting a lonely boy who insisted on going home to meet his new brother she hadn’t…

The Problem with Ontario’s Grandparents Rights Bill

Craitor’s Bill 48: Children’s Law Reform Amendment Act (Relationship with Grandparents), 2013 passed Second Reading with strong support from the opposition Progressive Conservatives and NDP. The latest version of the bill also has growing support from within Craitor’s own Liberal caucus. During Question Period earlier in the day, Ontario Attorney General John Gerretsen indicated the…